28 December 2009

womp womp

i won't go into detail right now as i am in a complete state of shock, but the beau and i have called it quits. three days before i was supposed to go and meet his family. came out of nowhere. i'm a total wreck. i'm still here reading, but i may disappear again for a little while. everything just hurts right now.

20 comments:

Michelle said...

i'm sorry. big hugs to you. if you were closer, i'd have you over for wine & some girl talk.

xoxo

KatieSPerk said...

You poor thing. I am thinking about you.

Summer (BisforBrown) said...

oh honey. i am here for you. i am here for you. i am sending you love and hoping you find some peace very soon. xoxox

gigiofca said...

I am married but was recently thinking of how I got dumped around holidays and birthdays. Oh, and a couple of times just before Valentine's Day (which I now hate). And then the guy came back afterwards. It's like they don't want to deal with the pressure of gifts, meeting/mingling with family & what it all means. Yes, guys can be this cowardly that they just dump not to deal and then pick up later after they feel less pressure. I don't agree or think it's right. And if he ends up coming back, I don't know what it means. Some would say if he really wants to be with you he would be happy to have you meet his family, etc... but you just never know what he's thinking. My husband acted so bizarre when I first met his family. I got along so well w/them I thought it freaked him out. 7 years later and he still acts a little weird when we're around them. So maybe he has a funky family dynamic he didn't want you to get mixed up in. Ugh. The holidays. But if he truly doesn't want to be in a relationship, better to know now. Cliche, but true. Well, whatever happens I hope that you are happy!!

Miss Sweet Tea said...

Waaahhh! :( Oh man, so sorry to hear this!! I hope you are okay!! Let me know if you need anything.

LPC said...

Belle, so sorry. Just take it day by day.

duchessbelle said...

I'm so sorry.

KAC said...

I am so so sorry! Sending you lots of love and good thoughts xoxoxo

Breanna said...

=( I sorry. I know what will make it better WINE =D. I hope it get's better for ya. I will keep ya in my thoughts.

Breanna

Blackeyed Susan said...

I'm sorry:( hugs to you

Little Pink Magnolia said...

Well he's a fool to let you go. I'm so sorry.

CAC muffin said...

Sweet thing- hang in there! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! You're amazing don't forget it!

carrie1 said...

He's an asshat and you deserve better then that! =) Big hugs sent your way. <3

MCW said...

Sorry...what miserable timing. Feel better.

Preppy 101 said...

Sorry I am just now catching up on my blogs. Hope you find peace in all this. Hugs to you honey. xoxo

...All Things Refined said...

Big hugs to you Belle!

Perfectly Imperfect said...

just wanted you to know i was thinking of you...

USCEmily said...

I know EXACTLY what you are going through because I'm in the midst of dealing with the same thing. It's heartbreaking, and if you need someone to commiserate with- email me... i could use a friend in the same boat!

SogniSorrisi said...

I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. Better soon rather than later (and better before having to suffer though ackward family intros!) I really hope you find peace and happiness during this trying time. xo

Polka Dots & Protein Bars said...

Oh, sweets, I am so so so sorry to hear this. Having recently recovered from a break up, I can imagine exactly what you're going through right now. Hugs!