06 January 2010

wowza

the best way to mend a broken heart is time and girlfriends. ~gwyneth

well, it's finally done and over with. after a long and painful three weeks, it is officially over with the beau and me. time for the healing and moving forward to begin.

one thing i have learned in the past few weeks is that i am beyond blessed with an amazing group of friends. women get such a bad rap for being catty and petty and jealous, but i have seen nothing of that. my sister allowed me to play the taylor swift you're not sorry-csi remix {seriously...best break-up song. EVER.} at full blast on repeat for two hours in the car. friend k has practically been an on-call therapist, complete with hours of me on the phone saying "i just don't get it" over and over and over. high school bestie {who is also recently single} was my partner-in-crime for a NYE of sweats, male-bashing, champers, and pizza. my two college besties call and/or text every morning, noon, and night on the dot to check for updates and to make sure i'm doing ok. everyone has been so supportive and understanding.

and then all of YOU! i have been completely bowled over by your sweet words of support. e-mails, comments, you name it...y'all have come out of the woodwork for someone you don't even know and i can't tell you how helpful that has been for me. i've had several e-mails/comments for gals who are going through the same thing, and in a weird way, it's nice to know i'm not the only one going through this. strength in numbers, ladies!


so thank you. thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my broken little heart. although i will still be blasting tay swizzle and living on a diet of peanut butter captain crunch and diet coke for the forseeable future, i'm going to try to limit the number of woe is me posts. i'm working on getting my shit together {yesterday was the first time in two weeks i even bothered to put make-up on or style my hair. yeah.} and i promise to be back in the next day or two with some very belated posts on my christmas loot and new year's resolutions.

happy hump day!

10 comments:

Summer (BisforBrown) said...

you are one amazing lady and deserve the best of everything.

Preppy 101 said...

Good Progress = Make-up. You WILL feel better in the future days. And, we are here to read as many "woe is me" posts that you want to write! Do whatever you have to do to heal and move on. Hugs. xoxo

P.S. My word verification for this comment is Growers. I think that is foreshadowing!

LPC said...

Take your time. I agree. As many woe is me as you want.

MLD said...

LOVE that song, and I am sending some VA girl love your way!

Black Labs and Lilly said...

Nothing fun about a broken heart, especially at this time of year, I was in your shoes 2 years ago, and can certainly tell you that you'll feel better soon!!!

Kassie said...

I know it seems like everyone says these things, but it will get better! I was in your shoes a few years ago, and I can't tell you how much happier I am now! :)

hotchildinthecity said...

breaking up is SO horrible. i'm sorry you have to go through it. BUT great friends make a world of difference. one day i'm sure you will be able to look back on this as a blessing in disguise :) good luck.

Breanna said...

Put a smile on your face! My grandmother always said "And this too shall pass", trust me you will be a stronger woman because of it!

breanna

Red and White Preppy said...

"Woe is me" as much as you like, sweetie! I've been there, and it's good to have an outlet like this to get your feelings out.

I'm sorry you're going through this, but don't forget I really am here if you need anything :)

SogniSorrisi said...

I'm glad to hear you have such a great support system, although, I wouldn't overdo it on the Taylor Swift - she could drive anyone to drink. lol